The idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable for some couples. It could be hard to know how “swinging” — once you swap lovers with another couple and rest with someone brand new — can in fact cause stronger relationship bonds. But truth be told, it could, and there are many partners thinking about carrying it out than you may understand.
Before you dive in if you’ve ever remotely considered getting into swinging — with your spouse, significant other or just that cool friend with benefits — there are a few things you should know. Below, four females come on as to what their particular swinging experiences were enjoy.
Nicole was together with her husband for 18 years and they’ve been swinging for 17.
It: “I grew up with this idea that there’s not just one person for anyone and that we can enjoy being with multiple people, as well as the idea that you can have sex without having emotion tied to it how she got into. My better half knew we came across, so in the anniversary of our very first date, we made a decision to explore and visited a swingers club. That I happened to be bi-curious whenever”